The other day I totally vented it all out...After so many years it actually isn't too bad to finally come to realization that your belief was actually wrong. W/ Mencius' teaching...always believing the best of mankinds, but still i'd say the world is not that simple. At least it's not what I wished it to be.
Lately..there are also so many dramas going on between 2 of our employees, who happened to have affairs and wanted to have a divorce. I don't understand how these wives could stand or put up with the constant affairs or the fact that their husband is cheating on her. I'm glad I had a chance to talk to one of the employee since we're pretty good friends, and he's just like my brother in a way. Kinda felt sad thinking that if he has actually insisted on getting a divorce, both of his children will soon belong to a single parent family where the foundation of the family is no longer there. Their supports and what they used to look upon as role models would be gone just like that. The psychological damage will cause them to be afraid of getting involved in a relationship or perhaps more seriously like being committed to a marriage.
I know My God told me in the Bible about marriage..if you love someone "til death do us part," for me having another woman or more like WOMEN..was never something I am willing to tolerant. To me...it's like unwashed hands filled with germs...sorry if that may offend some of my friends. For those wives..it made me think that they must love their husband a lot or what....that they're willing to commit to such kind of sacrifice.
Love is so rare and authentic love is especially hard to find.
It says money can't buy you love is so true, it can only buy you lust....when all the infatuation disappears, loneliness is still there. It's like there's always a void inside that you need to constantly find something/someone to replace it...in fact you will never satisfy that void b/c it's an inner spiritual thing. It cannot be filled by the worldly things. Whatever your God is....I definitely hope that it can provide peace in your heart.
Peace!
Enjoy what you can, endure what you must ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things ~ Robert Brault
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Love shall never end..It shall never cease..Because all we have to do is to LISTEN & BELIEVE!
Love shall never end..It shall never cease..Because all we have to do is to LISTEN & BELIEVE!
All About Me
“I asked God for strength that I might achieve. I was made weak that I might learn humbly to obey. I asked for health that I might do greater things. I was given infirmity that I might do better things. I asked for riches that I might be happy. I was given poverty that I might be wise. I asked for power that I might have the praise of men. I was given weakness that I might feel the need of God. I asked for all things that I might enjoy life. I was given life that I might enjoy all things. I got nothing that I asked for, but everything I hoped for. Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered. I am, among all men, most richly blessed.”
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Interests: collecting Starbucks cards (actually anything has to do with Starbucks), watching latest fashion trends, traveling, food tasting, watching movies, doing shoppings (of cuz when it is necessary!), driving nice cars (or just by looking at it), listening music (very imp!), playing piano & composing songs (lack of practice :P), writing stuffs on my blog, playing with my precious doggy (although Puffy's been pretty annoying lately), looking at beautiful things!! ^___^
Favorite Music Genres:
Pop, Jazz, Gospel, Soft Rock, R&B, Hip-Hop
Favorite TV Shows:
King of the Queens, Friends; Prison Break, Project Runway, Travel & Living...etc
Favorite Quotes:
*Easier Than You Think…because life doesn't have to be so hard -- Richard Carlson
*It is a greater compliment to be trusted than to be loved -- George MacDonald
*In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds -- Aristotle
*Keep a fair-sized cemetery in your back yard, in which to bury the faults of your friends -- Henry Ward Beecher
*The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend -- Henry David Thoreau
*A joy shared is a joy doubled -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
Questions to Ask:
-Do my closest friends enjoy just being with me?
-Am I a friend that others depend on during difficult times?
Love isn't love unless it is expressed; caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;sharing isn't sharing unless the other person is included; Loving, caring, and sharing can make for a very happy marriage -- by Anonymous
Personal Info:
Interests: collecting Starbucks cards (actually anything has to do with Starbucks), watching latest fashion trends, traveling, food tasting, watching movies, doing shoppings (of cuz when it is necessary!), driving nice cars (or just by looking at it), listening music (very imp!), playing piano & composing songs (lack of practice :P), writing stuffs on my blog, playing with my precious doggy (although Puffy's been pretty annoying lately), looking at beautiful things!! ^___^
Favorite Music Genres:
Pop, Jazz, Gospel, Soft Rock, R&B, Hip-Hop
Favorite TV Shows:
King of the Queens, Friends; Prison Break, Project Runway, Travel & Living...etc
Favorite Quotes:
*Easier Than You Think…because life doesn't have to be so hard -- Richard Carlson
*It is a greater compliment to be trusted than to be loved -- George MacDonald
*In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. The young they keep out of mischief; to the old they are a comfort and aid in their weakness, and those in the prime of life they incite to noble deeds -- Aristotle
*Keep a fair-sized cemetery in your back yard, in which to bury the faults of your friends -- Henry Ward Beecher
*The most I can do for my friend is simply be his friend -- Henry David Thoreau
*A joy shared is a joy doubled -- Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
Questions to Ask:
-Do my closest friends enjoy just being with me?
-Am I a friend that others depend on during difficult times?
Love isn't love unless it is expressed; caring isn't caring unless the other person knows;sharing isn't sharing unless the other person is included; Loving, caring, and sharing can make for a very happy marriage -- by Anonymous
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